A Perfect Mom
A Perfect Mom. What kind of picture pops up in your head when you hear that phrase? When it’s 4pm and I’m still in my pajamas, I look around my painfully disorganized house, with a sink full of unwashed dishes, toys still strewn all over the floor, and about a hundred piles of baby clothes that have been sitting out for about a week when I got the brilliant idea that I would organize my house with two kids under four and a husband who is gone to another country for two weeks, I have a pretty clear picture of what DOESN’T pop into my mind when I think of “perfect mom” status. … Or maybe when I’ve heard “why?” for the hundredth time in thirty minutes and I snap at my son for no other reason than I’m tired and overwhelmed by the fact that I’ve done nothing but answer his questions all day and maybe change a couple diapers. … Or maybe when I take my three-year-old son out to play in the rain and I’m scolded over and over by countless well-meaning Chinese grandparent